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Posted by Jo on February 17, 2013
I love films, but I’m currently not a regular cinemagoer. My cinema visits in 2016 can be counted on one hand, and involved only one new(ish) release:
- January: The Hateful Eight (2015)
- August: The Princess Bride (1987)
- September: The Man Who Fell To Earth (1976)
- October: True Romance (1993)
- October: The Lives Of Others (2006)
Because I watched everything else at home — hence waited for films to become available for (legal!) downloading or streaming — I’m going to list two Top 10s of 2016: one of 2016 films and one of 2015 films watched in 2016:
My personal top 10 of 2016 films
- The Brand New Testament
- Weiner (documentary)
- 10 Cloverfield Lane
- Midnight Special
- Sing Street
- Hail, Caesar!
- Eddie The Eagle
- Holy Hell (documentary)
- Zootropolis (also known as Zootopia)
- The Secret Life of Pets
My personal top 10 of 2015 films watched in 2016
This Top 10 “goes to 11” with two titles sharing third place:
- The Hateful Eight
- Je Suis Charlie (documentary)
- He Never Died
- Janis: Little Girl Blue (documentary)
- Bone Tomahawk
- What Happened, Miss Simone? (documentary)
My least favourite film of 2015 that I watched in 2016: The Witch
Posted by Jo on December 26, 2016
Recently I posted the 30-Day Music Challenge to my Facebook profile. It was one of my Sunday afternoon projects: I scrolled through my music collection and made a list, then used Hootsuite to schedule thirty Facebook posts, one to go out each day at 4pm.
The full list is as follows:
DAY 1: A song you like with a colour in the title
Monday 21 November 2016: Amy Winehouse – Back To Black
DAY 2: A song you like with a number in the title
Tuesday 22 November 2016: The Selecter – Three Minute Hero
DAY 3: A song that reminds you of summer time
Wednesday 23 November 2016: Rainbow – Catch The Rainbow
DAY 4: A song that reminds you of someone you would rather forget about
Thursday 24 November 2016: Red Hot Chili Peppers – Wet Sand
DAY 5: A song that needs to be played LOUD
Friday 25 November 2016: System Of A Down – Chop Suey!
DAY 6: A song that makes you want to dance
Saturday 26 November 2016: James – Laid
DAY 7: A song to drive to
Sunday 27 November 2016: Ministry – Jesus Built My Hotrod
DAY 8: A song about drugs or alcohol
Monday 28 November 2016: The Verve – The Drugs Don’t Work
DAY 9: A song that makes you happy
Tuesday 29 November 2016: Outkast – Hey Ya
DAY 10: A song that makes you sad
Wednesday 30 November 2016: Janis Joplin – Piece of My Heart
DAY 11: A song that you never get tired of
Thursday 01 December 2016: Rammstein – Sonne
DAY 12: A song from your preteen years
Friday 02 December 2016: Duran Duran – Friends Of Mine
DAY 13: One of your favourite 1970s songs
Saturday 03 December 2016: Funkadelic – Cosmic Slop
DAY 14: A song that you would love played at your wedding
Sunday 04 December 2016: The Damned – Love Song
DAY 15: A song that is a cover by another artist
Monday 05 December 2016: The Lightning Seeds – You Showed Me
DAY 16: One of your favourite classical songs
Tuesday 06 December 2016: Delibes’ Flower Duet from Lakme
DAY 17: A song you would sing as a duet on karaoke
Wednesday 07 December 2016: The Beautiful South – Song for Whoever
DAY 18: A song from the year that you were born
Thursday 08 December 2016: Bruce Springsteen – Born To Run
DAY 19: A song that makes you think about life
Friday 09 December 2016: R.E.M. – I’ll Take The Rain
DAY 20: A song that has multiple meanings to you
Saturday 10 December 2016: Pearl Jam – I Am Mine
DAY 21: A favourite song with a person’s name in the title
Sunday 11 December 2016: Madness – Michael Caine
DAY 22: A song that moves you forward
Monday 12 December 2016: The Killers – Everything Will Be Alright
DAY 23: A song that you think everybody should listen to
Tuesday 13 December 2016: Triggerfinger – First Taste
DAY 24: A song by a band you wish were still together
Wednesday 14 December 2016: The Smiths – There’s A Light That Never Goes Out
DAY 25: A song by an artist no longer alive
Thursday 15 December 2016: David Bowie – Absolute Beginners
DAY 26: A song that makes you want to fall in love
Friday 16 December 2016: India Arie – Ready For Love
DAY 27: A song that breaks your heart
Saturday 17 December 2016: Bette Midler – Stay With Me
DAY 28: A song by an artist with a voice that you love
Sunday 18 December 2016: Selah Sue – Crazy Sufferin’ Style
DAY 29: A song that you remember from your childhood
Monday 19 December 2016: Phil Lynott – Old Town
DAY 30: A song that reminds you of yourself
Tuesday 20 December 2016: Catatonia – Strange Glue
Posted by Jo on December 25, 2016
Because mensplaining and womensplaining are old hat — sexism, like racism and other type of bigotry, is apparently mainstream again — I figured I’d introduce the new concepts that I think are (unfortunately!) going to be all the rage in 2017: politisplaining, alt-rightsplaining and mediasplaining.
Posted by Jo on December 2, 2016
Posted by Jo on October 26, 2016
These are my purple ear nuggets! I got them from ACS in 2016 after developing hyperacusis; they helped me return to every-day life with all its noise(s) and now allow me to go to the cinema and to gigs again.
They filter the sound you hear, reducing or blocking out the worst/loudest noises while still allowing you to answer the phone or follow conversations around you. (As a downside of that, people who can’t stop talking during performances or folks eating crunchy snacks throughout a movie become more noticeable —as if they weren’t annoying enough…!) As yet I haven’t been able to get used to the different sound of my own voice* when wearing these ear plugs, so I prefer not to talk, but in my case that’s not necessarily a downside.
Custom ear filters not cheap, but I think they are worth the investment; alternatives for someone with hearing sensitivity issues might be to withdraw from a normal working and social life and/or spend months on NHS waiting lists for an audiologist, otologist and/or therapy (if you can even get the referral). Once my GP had confirmed my ears were free from infection and, after syringing, free from wax as well, ACS created moulds of my ears. A couple of weeks later I received my custom hearing protectors, which essentially do the opposite of hearing aids, except there aren’t any batteries involved; you choose a specific ‘strength’ of filter in advance, and if that turns out to provide either insufficient or excess noise reduction, you can opt to buy a different type. All in all the process took 3-4 weeks and a significant amount of money (£170-180 + travel time & expenses), but to me that was less of a price to pay than the alternatives I mentioned would have been.
I started off by wearing my custom ear plugs pretty much all day every day (either in addition to or in place of noise-cancelling headphones), and then slowly reintroducing myself to sounds and noise, by taking out my ‘purple ear nuggets’ and wearing standard in-ear headphones (<£20 Skull Candy earbuds provide a soft, warm, non-screechy sound while blocking out outside noise, yet without leaking much sound themselves); first with pink noise (something I’d already used with my noise cancelling headphones), then without noise (pink or otherwise), and then slowly reintroducing the music and podcasts I love at increasing volume, or wearing no ear buds or ear plugs whatsoever. My aim was to build up my pain threshold in relation to my hearing, and I figured this might work best by practicing with those sounds that I used to love before sound and noise came to equal pain.
Nowadays I only wear hearing attenuation when there are loud sounds around me (building work, loud music I didn’t pick played through crappy speakers, noisy old tube trains, a vacuum cleaner, the washing machine during its spinning cycle, low-flying helicopters and so on), be it at home or elsewhere. I’ve worn my ‘purple ear nuggets’ whenever I’ve gone to the cinema, and at the time of writing this I’ve just attended my first rock gig wearing them (not wanting to force things I didn’t enter the venue until after the support act had finished, only attended the main act, and didn’t stick around for any afterparty).
Custom ear filters like ACS’s are clearly great for gig-goers, clubbers and ravers and the like, and although they can also be a great aid for anyone affected by hyperacusis, they’re by no means perfect for the latter, as they don’t block out the horrid hiss of office air con or rainy-day traffic on wet roads (noise-cancelling headphones** may work better for those).
Also, the little cord ACS supplies with each set of ear plugs is useful to attach when you’re wearing the ear plugs to crowded events where you could be at risk of losing them (it even has a clip to attach to your clothing), but the way the cord itself conducts sound into your ears via the plugs is a hyperacusis sufferer’s nightmare; the same applies to the cream supplied with the plugs: comfortable, perhaps, if you hardly ever wear the plugs, but not pleasant if you’re a regular wearer with hyperacusis or another type of (hyper)sensitivity to sound.
Because I found very little had been written about using custom hearing attenuation as a (fast-tracked) means of dealing with hyperacusis or other hearing sensitivity issues, I decided to write this in the hope it may help someone else in a similar situation to mine.
Please note I am not medically trained and have written this only to share my personal experience and my opinions based on this experience, and not to provide any medical advice. If you have any issues with your hearing, please get yourself seen by a doctor; it’s what I did but perhaps I left it a bit too late — and that’s not something I’d advise anyone.
For more information about the specific hearing protection pictured, go to acscustom.com/uk/products/hearing-protection/pro-series.
To learn more about hearing sensitivity issues, visit braininjurysociety.com/information/acquired-brain-injury/hyperacusis-noise-sensitivity-hearing.
If you do not suffer from any issues relating to your hearing, but you do love music and you love going to clubs or gigs, hearing protection is worth considering, anyway. In my opinion – and I stress, it’s my opinion only, based on personal experience alone – good hearing protection will not take anything away from the immersive experience (whereas turning down the overall sound may) but it does prevent pain and damage.
*This issue – called occlusion – is more of a problem with standard foam earplugs than it is with custom plugs; for me, the problem is not so much the sound of my own voice but rather the volume, in that I have no idea whether I am speaking too loudly or softly when wearing my custom ear plugs.
**Note: If you’re going to invest in noise-cancelling headphones: my Sennheiser PXC 250-II are fab on aeroplanes where everyone’s cell phones are switched off or on the tube in tunnels where there is no signal; but attached to or near some – not all – mobile devices the GSM buzz they pick up can cause sheer agony for anyone with (hyper)sensitive hearing. I had to buy my noise-cancelling headphones in a rush, with no time to research or shop around, but I wish I’d known this before I spent an arm and a leg on them.
Posted by Jo on October 23, 2016